In four days my name will change and I will once again be a wife. No more single life. I will bring into this marriage all the wisdom I’ve learned […]
Harry and I have been on a high lately. Everything has been full-steam ahead and there have been no glitches. None. Our pre-marital counseling is going so well. The one-on-one […]
I sat on the other side of the large desk of my pastor and listened as he described me as a Proverbs 31 woman. I held onto Harry’s hands as […]
I’m in a philosophical mood today. So get ready! There are stages to grief and one of them is denial. We deny the reality of the situation when someone we […]
If my goal in life was to be “happy” I would probably not even consider marriage. But some people think of what they will “GET” if they get married. And the thought of those “things” make them happy. And then they realize…purses, shoes, boats, diamonds, vacations, parties, fancy houses do not bring in and of themselves happiness. You have to actually LIKE the person you are sharing your life with too. And more importantly you have to respect them.
t’s been said that it’s not if you will have a storm but when. They keep coming. There are seasons of life just as there are seasons on earth. Winter will come. And then come again.
There are only a few pages left to my current chapter in life. Three months and my daughter graduates. Six months and she’ll be moving into dorms. And me? Let me tell you what I HOPE happens and why I am hoping so much!
Before Harry had to leave after lunch on this beautiful Sunday, I kissed him with everything I had and I thanked him for making the choices he did this weekend to be with me and my kids, to take me to the movie, and to go to church. He teared up and said that he has a lot of things going on his head. He called this weekend magical, said he was on a high. And I asked him if he could describe it in one phrase what would it be? And he said, “Heaven.”
You hear people talk about the new normal all the time. But I’ve been craving normal for a while and tonight I was assaulted with the old normal. I went […]
Last night Harry came over in the early morning. “I’m trying baby, I love you and I’m trying.” He was pleading with me. “I’m trying too.” I realized something in that moment. Right then he was my best friend and what he needed most was a hug