Soul Mates


People tend to place much too much emphasis on chemistry instead of friendship and some are afraid that if you start the relationship as friends it will be stuck there forever more. I think chemistry is important too but not acting on it. Sure attraction has to be there…but if you put the physical before the friendship you are almost ensuring a short-lived romance. Because chemistry has no endurance. It fizzles over time and becomes stale.

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You Can’t Escape Your Past


I just can’t escape it. It’s there like a stain on white pants. It’s not like I can just turn around and say, “Oh well, no biggie, I’m happy now and I guess it’s good that you’re happy too.” In some ways I CAN think that. But it’s a huge stretch. It’s me being able to see him as just another person and not the husband who betrayed me. Maybe someday I will get there. But I’m not there yet. Does that make me a hypocrite?

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