Enough for Me

If I’m not enough for Martin then so be it. If I’m not enough for any other man or for my mom or anyone else….I have to be enough for me.

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Forgiveness for Humans vs God

I’ve been thinking a lot about the topic of forgiveness lately. I know that I am to forgive Martin for what he did but what does that really mean? As women who have been through divorce I know many of us played the part of forgiving our husbands of wrong doing. Sometimes we forgave many times over when it was not even deserved. And I guess this is where we get confused about the difference of the unconditional love of God and the forgiveness He expects from us because he forgave us.

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Brain on Overload

Now I’ve found out that the ride was older than I was told. The risks to me are greater. There are things to consider. And it’s not just that he lied, although that is huge. It is the truth of his age that has come to light. Does it make me not want to love him anymore because he’s “old”? No. I love him, that is a given. I already love him. Under a false set of facts -yes. But I can’t change the fact that I love him.

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